Domestic violence is not part of African culture

Lazarus Sauti

Domestic Violence is one of the leading causes of death for women in Africa.

This violence against women is carried out under the guise of culture and tradition, which is intolerable.

“In my culture, when I got married, my father gave my husband a stick. That stick came with a message - that my husband should never beat me. So where is this culture of beating coming from?

“It is not and has never been an African value or part of our culture that wives should be beaten or battered.

“If there are problems within the home we need to go back to the extended family to take up the issues.

“This should happen before a beating and battering rather than afterwards," Southern Africa HIV and AIDS Information Dissemination Service (SAfAIDS) Executive Director, Mrs Lois Chingandu said.

Sharing same views, South Africa’s Minister of Women, Children and People with Disabilities Lulu Xingwana said domestic violence is a social evil that must be uprooted from our communities.

Therefore to curb this cancer, Africans should find mechanisms to resolve differences instead of resorting to fighting.

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