Zimbabwe: Virginity - Violence, Double Standards
Lazarus Sauti "Women, unlike men, have to worry about their virginity. They are taught that their virginity is valuable, even a commodity. Remember the issue of mombe yechimanda; virginity is commercialised, commodified."A Harare man, Shepherd Musekiwa, whipped his wife as punishment for falsely claiming that she was a virgin before he married her. He discovered that she was not a virgin during their honeymoon. The matter was heard in the Civil Court recently after Shepherd Musekiwa's wife, Patricia, approached the court for a protection order against her husband. "The main problem is that she lied to me that she was a virgin before I married her, only to find out that she was not after the wedding," Shepherd told magistrate Barbra Maketo. He added, "She used to deny me sex before I married her saying she was saving herself for marriage, but she was lying." Patricia said she is suffering because her husband had also resorted to ...